It often seems to happen overnight. Your three-year-old was chatting away, and now they're stuck on the first word of every sentence. "I-I-I-I want juice." Or their mouth is open, but nothing comes out.
If this is happening in your home, you're not alone, and you didn't cause it. Here is what's going on, what's typical, and when it's time to call a speech therapist.
How common it is
Stuttering in young children is common
Research suggests about 5% to 11% of children go through a period of stuttering during the preschool years, often starting around age 3 (published research). It tends to show up during big bursts of language growth, when a child's ideas are moving faster than their speech system can keep up.
The encouraging news: most young children who start stuttering stop. Research puts natural recovery at roughly 75% to 80%, often within the first year or so after it begins. But recovery becomes less likely the longer stuttering continues, which is why waiting "to see" isn't always the best plan.
What to listen for
Typical disfluency vs. stuttering
All young children are a little bumpy when they talk. Here is how speech therapists tell the difference.
More likely typical
- Repeating whole words or phrases ("I want, I want the ball")
- Using fillers like "um" and "uh"
- Bumps are relaxed and easy
- Child doesn't seem to notice
- Comes and goes
More likely stuttering
- Repeating sounds or parts of words ("b-b-b-ball")
- Stretching sounds ("sssssun")
- Blocks, where no sound comes out
- Tension, eye blinking, or facial grimacing
- Avoiding words, saying "never mind," or talking less
If you see things in the second list, especially tension or avoidance, it's worth getting an evaluation sooner rather than later. You can read more in our post on stuttering red flags versus typical disfluencies.
Risk factors
Factors that make stuttering more likely to stick around
No single factor predicts which child will recover. But research points to a few that raise the odds of stuttering continuing:
- A family member who still stutters as an adult
- Stuttering that has lasted more than 6 to 12 months
- Being a boy (boys are more likely to keep stuttering than girls)
- Signs that your child is aware of it, frustrated, or avoiding talking
- Other speech or language concerns at the same time
If any of these apply, don't wait. Early support is easier, faster, and often more effective than starting later.
At home
What you can do at home right now
- Slow down your own speech. Not your child's. Children naturally match the pace around them.
- Pause before you answer. A one or two second pause takes the pressure off the conversation.
- Don't finish their words or say "slow down" or "take a breath." It's well meant, but it signals that something is wrong.
- Give your full attention. Get down to their level and let them finish, even if it takes a while.
- Make some time each day low pressure. Play together and comment instead of asking lots of questions.
Our approach
What stuttering therapy looks like for young children
For preschoolers, therapy is play-based and parent centered. A big part of it is coaching you on small changes at home that make talking easier. For older children, therapy also builds confidence and gives them tools they can use in class, at playdates, and when they order for themselves at a restaurant.
We take a neurodiversity-affirming approach. The goal is never to make a child feel bad about how they talk. It's to help them communicate freely and confidently, whatever their speech sounds like.
Tarzana · Woodland Hills
Stuttering therapy for Tarzana and Woodland Hills families
SG Speech Therapy offers stuttering and fluency therapy for children across the San Fernando Valley. Our clinic is in Calabasas, just west of Woodland Hills on the 101, and many Tarzana and Woodland Hills families choose in-home sessions so therapy happens where their child is most comfortable. We also see children at school or daycare and over Zoom, Monday through Friday until 7 PM.
Every child starts with a speech and language evaluation. Learn more about speech therapy in Tarzana or speech therapy in Woodland Hills.
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